Have you waited for Mr. Right so long that even Mr. Wrong is beginning to look good to you? Don't give up on a guy you really care about just because he hasn't shown up with a ring. If he is what you are looking for, try seeing things from his side and, whatever you do, don't give up too soon.
To tell the truth, if I were a man, I would be a little wary too after years of seeing the average housewife portrayed on TV programs as bossy, manipulative, self-centered, and demanding. We gals know it isn't a fair portrayal, but we laugh just as loud as everyone else when such programs come on.
I do hate to see women acting like little gold diggers, hinting for gifts and then complaining when they aren't expensive or flashy looking enough; telling the men in their lives how to dress and behave in public; deciding when and where the two of them should go to eat, or on vacation; and insinuating that only a mother knows how to care for a child. Hopefully, you are not one of these women, but if you are, wake up. Men are not, in most cases, ignorant, uneducated hillbilly slobs. It really is possible that the guy you care about might have a few good ideas of his own if you give him a chance to express them.
If you are not one of those women, please be patient. Men sometimes take a little longer to make up their minds about spending the rest of their lives with one person. A line in most marriage ceremonies says that marriage should not be entered into lightly. The fact t hat a guy takes time to think it over carefully shows me that he has wisdom. A guy with wisdom is well worth waiting for.
If you want some advice on how to make sure that you are "the one" he picks when he does get around to finally making that commitment, take a look at the following video which contains not only valuable advice for young women who want to get married, but also great advice for those who are already in a relationship, but who want to become the kind of person a man will want to stay married to.
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Saturday
Want to Restore a Rocky or Broken Relationship?
The divorce rate in the United States is alarming. Over half the couples who start out together don't make it, but, with a little effort, that numer could change for the better.
I'm not a marriage counselor, but I have helped a few couples fix a relationship that was heading for the rocks.
If your marriage, or relationship is worth saving, and I have only seen a few that weren't, then you owe it to yourself not to call it quits too soon. That means you shouldn't give up until you have exhausted every possibility to regain the closeness that the two of you once had.
Start out by making sure that you aren't the one who is making life difficult for the two of you. It's easy to blame the other party, but the chances are that both partners share some of the guilt.
In my experience, the best way to get a shaky relationship back on a solid foundation is to redefine what love really is. One of the best definitions I have heard of true love is "the willingness to do whatever is best for the other party, no matter what the cost may be to yourself."
Wow. That's quite a mouthful, isn't it? Notice, it doesn't say that you have to give in to everything the other person wants or demands, but that you will do whatever is best for them. If you can honestly say that you are doing that, no matter what the circumstance, your caring will begin to shine through to your partner and make it really difficult for them not to respond in kind.
For more suggestions check out, The Magic of Making Up. It's crammed full of ideas of what you can do to restore your marriage or relationship even if your partner has already left.
I'm not a marriage counselor, but I have helped a few couples fix a relationship that was heading for the rocks.
If your marriage, or relationship is worth saving, and I have only seen a few that weren't, then you owe it to yourself not to call it quits too soon. That means you shouldn't give up until you have exhausted every possibility to regain the closeness that the two of you once had.
Start out by making sure that you aren't the one who is making life difficult for the two of you. It's easy to blame the other party, but the chances are that both partners share some of the guilt.
In my experience, the best way to get a shaky relationship back on a solid foundation is to redefine what love really is. One of the best definitions I have heard of true love is "the willingness to do whatever is best for the other party, no matter what the cost may be to yourself."
Wow. That's quite a mouthful, isn't it? Notice, it doesn't say that you have to give in to everything the other person wants or demands, but that you will do whatever is best for them. If you can honestly say that you are doing that, no matter what the circumstance, your caring will begin to shine through to your partner and make it really difficult for them not to respond in kind.
For more suggestions check out, The Magic of Making Up. It's crammed full of ideas of what you can do to restore your marriage or relationship even if your partner has already left.
Friday
Save Your "Shaky" Relationship
Remember how "in love" you were just a few months ago?
What happened?
Now, it seems that all the two of you do is find little things to pick at each other about. The little things grow into huge things and pretty soon you are both ready to "walk out." Is your relationship worth saving?
Most relationships really are worth saving, but one or the other of the people involved just isn't willing to put the effort into saving it. Are you?
If you want to heal the rift between you, and figure out out to make sure the same thing doesn't happen again, check out T. W. Jackson's e-book called, The Magic of Making Up. For about the same price as a dinner out followed by a movie, you can learn how to save your relationship, or even how to get your ex back if he or she has already opted out.
If, for some reason, the book doesn't work for you, there is a money-back guarantee, but if you are willing to put its suggestions into operation, I doubt that you will be using the guarantee.
Even if you have just about given up, take one more look. If your relationship is worth saving, Click Here! to take a quick look to see if this e-book might not hold the answer for you.
What happened?
Now, it seems that all the two of you do is find little things to pick at each other about. The little things grow into huge things and pretty soon you are both ready to "walk out." Is your relationship worth saving?
Most relationships really are worth saving, but one or the other of the people involved just isn't willing to put the effort into saving it. Are you?
If you want to heal the rift between you, and figure out out to make sure the same thing doesn't happen again, check out T. W. Jackson's e-book called, The Magic of Making Up. For about the same price as a dinner out followed by a movie, you can learn how to save your relationship, or even how to get your ex back if he or she has already opted out.
If, for some reason, the book doesn't work for you, there is a money-back guarantee, but if you are willing to put its suggestions into operation, I doubt that you will be using the guarantee.
Even if you have just about given up, take one more look. If your relationship is worth saving, Click Here! to take a quick look to see if this e-book might not hold the answer for you.
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